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Flattery by means of “verbal promotion” is common in the Philip-
pines. A police ocer may be referred to as “Captain,” a police
captain may be called “Major,” and so on.
Gestures
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A great deal of information can be communicated via eye contact
and eyebrow movement. Filipinos may greet each other by mak-
ing eye contact followed by raising and lowering the eyebrows.
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A traditional Filipino may demonstrate respect upon greeting
an elder by placing the elder’s hand or knuckles on his or her
forehead.
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Because of the years of U.S. military presence in the Philippines,
most North American gestures are recognized.
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e foremost obscene gesture in both the USA and the Philippines
involves an extended middle nger. However, in the Philippines,
that nger is pointed at the person or thing being insulted.
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Since pointing can easily be taken for an insulting gesture, Filipinos
rarely indicate objects or directions by pointing with their ngers.
Instead, they indicate with a glance or by pursing their lips.
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Indicating “two” with the ngers is done by holding up the ring
and little nger, instead of the forenger and middle nger. e
thumb is not used to count numbers in the Philippines.
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Staring has various nuances in the Philippines, most of them
negative. Foreigners should avoid staring at Filipinos, who can
food are the most common gis, although there are situations in
which a handful of small coins is traditional.
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When invited to a Filipino home, bring (or have sent before you
arrive) owers or a delicacy to your hostess. Avoid bringing alco-
hol or a substantial food, as this may imply that your host cannot
serve enough to satisfy guests.
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However, exceptions are made for a specialty dish or food that
only you can provide, such as a recipe from your home country. A
thank-you note is appropriate aerward; some people also send a
small gi.
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Aer a dinner party, Filipinos oen give their guests extra food to
take home, an ancient tradition called pabaon.
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At Christmas, you will be expected to give a token gi—such as a
company calendar—to seemingly everyone you know or do busi-
ness with. Your list should include everyone who works for you,
all service personnel you deal with regularly (your postal clerks,
your security guards), and anyone who makes your life easier
by cooperating with you, such as the secretary of an important
client.
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Filipinos follow the Asian habit of not opening gis in the pres-
ence of the giver. Traditionally, if the recipient is not happy with
the gi, he or she avoids embarrassment by opening it away from
the giver. Furthermore, Filipinos abhor appearing greedy; to
open a gi immediately would give this impression. Do not be
dismayed if your gi is casually set aside and ignored; you will be
rare occasions, such as diplomatic functions.
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Neither men nor women should wear shorts or sandals in public,
except at the beach. Because Filipinos are so competitively fash-
ionable, some oces require their workers to wear uniforms.
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Don’t wear anything outside that can be damaged by water during
a esta. Drenching pedestrians is a favorite esta pastime.
Cultural Note
Filipinos consider everyone worthy of respect. The more important you are, the more you are
expected to be humble and generous. Even the requests of a Filipino beggar are rejected with
the phrase “Patawarin po” (Forgive me, sir). The Filipino is literally apologizing to the beggar
for not giving him anything. Never brusquely dismiss anyone in the Philippines.
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Singapore
Republic of Singapore
Cultural Note
Singapore remains a booming center of capitalism in Southeast Asia. It is considered
exceptionally safe (even antiseptic), however, visitors should remember that Singapore’s
myriad laws apply to natives and foreigners equally. Before arrival, travelers should become
familiar with these laws: for example, no littering, no non-prescription chewing gum, no
illegal drugs, no pornographic materials, no weapons, no jaywalking, no spitting, and no
smoking in most public places. There is speculation that some of these stringent laws will ease
in the future, but to date, they are unfailingly enforced.
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contact. is is especially true in situations between persons of
unequal station: the person with lower status does not meet the
gaze of his or her superior. Westerners sometimes interpret this
failure to “look me in the eye” as evidence of untrustworthiness.
On the contrary, in Singapore, sustained eye contact is considered
hostile and threatening.
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One reason for the government’s tight control over Singapore’s
populace is that it is a multicultural society. Singapore’s ethnic
Chinese dominate the business sector, just as they do in nearby
Malaysia and Indonesia. Traditionally, this generated resentment
on the part of the Indian population and the native ethnic Malays.
e government has multiple programs to foster national unity.
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English is widely spoken in Singapore. It is one of the country’s
four ocial languages, and is the standard language for interna-
tional business. Even the government writes its ocial correspon-
dence in English.
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e word “no” is rarely heard. You are more likely to hear a polite
but evasive “yes.” In Singapore, the response “yes” can mean
anything from “I agree” to “I hope you can tell from my lack of
enthusiasm that I really mean ‘no.’” Listen for this clue; whenever
there are any qualications attached, it probably means no.
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Oer your most advanced technical proposals in Singapore. It is
a country where they are aggressive about innovative training in
their schools and technology in their industries. Determined not
to be le behind in the high-tech arena, Singapore is striving to
become a center for stem-cell research.