BUOC
DAU
TIM HIEU MOT SO
BIEU HIEN
DAC
TRUNG
TRONG
• •
GIAO
TIEP
CUA NGUOI HUE
Oau
Minh Long
Khoa
Tdm ly - Gido
due,
Tnfdng DHSP Hue.
1.
Dat vain de
Hue - di sin vin hda cua nhan
loai,
tu
liu
da trd thanh diem den ha'p din
cua du khich trong nudc va qud'c te. Hue dep khdng chi bdi nhGng canh sic
thien nhien, khdng
chi
vi nhung ling tim, ddn dai ma Hue cdn quydn ru bdi
nhGng ndt ddc dio khic. Dd chfnh
la
vin hda giao tiep cua ngudi

trung trong giao tidp cd thd dugc xem la nhGng net ridng biet, tieu
bieu ve giao tidp, thd hien qua cich ndi ning, xung hd, Gng xu cua mdt ci
nhin hoic mdt nhdm ngudi va cd thd phin biet vdi ca nhin khac, nhdm ngudi
khic.
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Khi
nghidn cuu cac die trung trong
giao tidp ciia
ngudi Hue. chung tdi
tip trung nghien cun
bidu hien
d cic phuong d.en cu thd nhu ngdn ngG
tranc
phuc,
cu
chi,
hinh ddng, trong ddi sdng gia dinh va xa hgi.
2.1.
Bieu hien a phuang dien ngdn ngu
Ngdn ngG

kinh
dd cua dii nudc. Ngoai cung cim, Hud cdn nhidu phu de, quan vien, con vua,
chau chGa Vua chua, vdi quydn uy cua minh, khdng can in to ndi Idn, quan
lai
khdng dam ndi to trudc dGc vua va tridu thin. Chdn kinh ki
Idi
ndi phai nhd
nhe,
tG
tdn, cin trgng.
Mdt die didm khic, khi die trung cua ngdn ngG ngudi Hue la
sir
mdc
mac,
gian di trong cich xung hd, trong
Idi
in tidng ndi hing ngiy. Cic nhi
ngdn ngG hgc khi phin chia cac phuong ngu cua tidng Viet, tbim chf da coi
'Tieng
Line'
nhu li mgt phuong ngG rieng, khdng
lin
vdi bii ky phuong ngG
nio.
Khi giao tiep, ngudi Hue thudng sir dung cic tu ngG dia phuong nhu md,
te,
ring, rua, man, chi, he, bf cung vdi
sir
chii phic, that thi, tdi bung cua
minh. Tii ca nhGng yeu td dd da lam cho ngdn ngG ngudi Hue trd

mdt bidu tugng dep cua Cd dd. Ve dep diu dang, e le, kin dio cua ngudi phu nG
Hud, mdt phin cung do ta io dai tao nen.
Didu lam say dim
Idng
ngudi khi den Hue ngoai canh sic thien nhien,
ngoai Idi ndi nhd nhe, ngoii ta ao tim mdng mO cdn la sU diu dang, doan trang
trong cu chi, hanh ddng cua con ngudi noi day. Trong giao tie'p, ngudi Hue
ludn hidu khich vi coi trgng tinh cam. Vi viy, ngudi Hue ludn biet
ling
nghe y
kidn cua ngudi khic, khdng vdi vang, vd vip. Trong boat dgng, ngudi Hue rii
tu tdn, didm dam; di dung thi nhe nhang, khoan thai. Cung
each
giao tiep cua
ngudi Hue thd bidn d Id nghia, nd ndp, kfnh tren nhudng dudi.
2.3.
Bieu Men trong ddi sdng gia dinh vd ngodi xd hoi
Gia dinh la td i'm cua
mdi
ngudi,
la
noi vun dip tinh
yeu
thuong,
la
noi
se chia nhGng vui budn cua ddi sdng thudng nhat. Cich
c\x
xu trong gia dinh
cua ngudi Hue thd hien siu sic cic

dinh.
Nhd viy
ma trong giao tidp, Gng xu, ngudi Hue thudng cd y thuc tdi ve nhGng
vice nen
lam vi khdng nen lim, nhGng didu
nen
ndi va khdng nen ndi; cGng nhu each
ung xir vdi tung
mdi
quan he cu thd
giGa
anh vdi em. cha me vdi con. chdng vdi
vg
3.
Ket luan
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Mdi dan tdc, mdi vGng midn deu cd nhung
die
trung ridng vd giao tie'p,
Gng xu. Ngudi

Van boa A Chau, Sai Gon.
2.
Phan Thuan An (1988), Mat sd
di
tich lich sif
vdn
hda tgi
Thitdn
An, Van hoa Binh
Tri Thien.
3.
Vuong Huu Ld (1992), Cdc dgc diem
ngil dm ciia tieng
Hue,
Thong tin khoa hoc va
cong
nghe.
Hue'.
4.
Hoang Phe (chu bien) (2006),
Tif dien Tieng
Viet,
Nxb Da
.Ning.
5.
Nhieu
tie
gia (1998), Cd dd
Hue
Dep